The counselling was a phenomenal breakthrough for me and my husband. It helped me to be better equipped to deal with my underlying feelings of anger, inadequacy and the list goes on and on... the violent outburst of nasty words, rage, tears. I found answers to the many complicated questions that made no sense to me.. seeing it from the addicts perspective made me realize their behavior was not aimed at me, its a sickness that needs help. It helped me to focus and realize my individuality and worth. With my husband, he has realized and accepted his addiction, the face to face sessions paved his way through this web with caution; the group sessions were tremendously helpful and when he got home I could see that he didn't feel like an alien anymore.. there is hope.. its a lifelong journey, but better to go through it with caring people than drown alone in your misery and un-accountability... and many unanswered questions... its time to break this vicious cycle, and we managed to to get halfway there... the journey is long.. but together it can be accomplished!
Grateful Wife